Rules of Visiting Others

In Queretaro, anytime I make a time/date to go somewhere with someone, if it's more than 24 hours before the event I will contact them to confirm our meeting.  People expect it.  If a friend and I decide on Sunday that we'll meet for coffee on Thursday night, someone must confirm that on either wednesday or thursday or it won't happen.  I usually text a "see you tonite at 7!" on thursday afternoon, and shortly get the reply "Starbucks in Jardines, right?"  That means we'll both be at Starbucks in Jardines at 7ish.  The majority of our outings are sponaneous in Queretaro - 9:30pm on Wednesday night after church, whoever is still there when the church is being locked up may hear "we're going to tacos in Tejeda, see you all there in 15 minutes!" and some people show up.  Or sometime between getting to church on sunday morning and the time the service ends, we're magically set to go to the "Airport Corn and Gorditas" (about a 40 minute drive into the countryside for the best corn on the cob and gorditas EVER).  Sometimes a 8pm phone call for something totally unrelated ends up in us going to friends' house for snacks and a movie immediately after hanging up. 

So, because I know that pretty much everyone who isn't a college student in the USA plans outings in advance, we've been calling people maybe 3 to 10 days in advance of meeting with them.  Then I call them the day before the event.  And most of the time I get, "Oh, can you guys not make it?" or "Did something come up for you?"  Maybe the fact that I call to confirm raises questions in their minds about our availabilty?  I'm confused...  So then we quit confirming and just showed up at peoples' homes when we hadn't spoken with them for a week.  And they were expecting us!  Amazing!  If I asked someone in Queretaro to come over a week from now, and I didn't hear from them and I didn't call them, I wouldn't expect them be there. 

I guess I'm just in the process learning my own culture all over again, this time as an adult, as I'd never been an adult in the United States before! 

Hey There!

I don't think I'd ever hit the mark of not having blogged for two months.  Well, two months of no blog flew by in February, so I think I owe a post. 

As you (should!) know, we're in USA now.  We have lots to accomplish before moving back to Queretaro - hopefully sometime the beginning of 2013, like, less than 12 months from now... we hope!  But we'll just let God be in control of that one!

So SUPER quick, here's what we've done since coming to the USA!

Celebrated our first Christmas in the USA!

Went to Disneyland!

JP saw snow for the first time!

Went to visit friends in Atlanta and Nashville!

Spent an entire day in the snow in the Cascade Mountains!

God provided all we needed to do all we've needed to do so far.  We've stayed in 7 different housed since leaving our house in Queretaro, and have had the needed transportation to visit the people we needed to visit and go the places we've needed to go. 

What's in the future for us?

JP will be applying for US citizenship, and starting English classes at the local community college.  We'll both be going to International Teams' training in July, and another ministry training in August!

We're also trying to get our financial support up to 100% during this time so we can be fully funded and move back to Mexico once our other tasks are complete!

Our Last Week in Queretaro

Our last week in Queretaro was a busy one!  We are very grateful to Walt and DiAne who took us in for THREE weeks while we packed up our house and turned it back in to its owners.  We had some unexpected events during our last week - like a minor operation for me which had us staying about 5 days longer than anticipated (everything went excellent!).

During our last week...

We had nightly prayer services for "Week of Prayer" at Horizonte Church

(and it was COLD!)

Me, JP, and Angie:

We went to the community of Pilares in the State of Mexico (about 2 hours from QRO) with Walt and DiAne, where there is a Compassion International project, and where they are beginning micro-finance courses.

JP, a chicken, and DiAne:

We had our goodbye party at RenovArte Cafe (hosted by our friends Phil and Sandy in their place of ministry!) one Saturday night, and TONS of friends came to hang out with us!

Us with my good friends Karen and Pam!

Alex, JP, me, Job, and Cristina at the cafe!

Some of the people who came to our goodbye party!

Part of my womens' group at Horizonte Church (Angie, Moni, me, Brenda, and Silvia)

And JP got his official diploma from college - he's now a "professional" in International Business.  :)

We had an excellent time hanging out with friends and family in Queretaro.  We'll miss living there for several months, but we'll be back!  

Bienvenidos al USA!

We are here!  After an exciting weekend of a minor operation for me, a good-sized earthquake (6.4!)experienced from JP's dad's 4th floor apartment of in Mexico City, our favorite fried quesadillas in Coyoacan, an all day travel day on Monday, and an immigration official that didn't want to let ME into the USA (I'm still a US citizen!!), we're settling down for a few weeks at my parents house in Salem Oregon! 

We're thankful for God's provision through the past two weeks of craziness, for parents in two countries who let us stay in their  homes at a moment's notice, for Walt and Diane in Queretaro who took us in to their house for three weeks, and for indoor heating! 

No pictures this time, but soon!  :)

A note about the earthquake:
I'd been in 5 good-sized earthquakes in Oregon, California, and El Salvador, but this one beat all.  I'm pretty sure the thing lasted about a minute, and it was the wavy kind, not the bouncy kind.  We (JP, his dad, and I) were in the tv room of the apartment and we got to the door, got the door unlocked (there are three deadbolts on it, all of which open from the inside with a key!) and got to the stair well, at which point the power went out, and being 8pm it was dark.  All the neighbors came out of their apartments too, some of the ladies were screaming and others were calling for their pets.  We made it down to ground level, bumping into lots of neighbors, by the time the quake stopped and the lights came on.  In general, people seemed calm, and thankfully, no one was hurt, and in all Mexico City no one died!

Sooo...

SOOO much has happened in the past two weeks, it's crazy!  BUT, we're on our last day of continuous internet access until we figure something out in Oregon, and it's midnight, and we have to be up at like 5am... SO - we stayed longer in Queretaro than we'd planned, going to Mexico City Saturday morning, in Oregon Monday night, JP had his "titualacion" (like graduation for when you're a professional) tonight, said goodbye to everyone and their pet rock TWICE so far this week, tired, looking forward to Paddingtons Pizza, don't have a date to come back to Queretaro yet, going to bed. 
That sums me up for this week!
And here's a picture! 

(Us with Luis, Sandy, and girls)

And this is yummy:

(and big)

At some point in the not too distant future, we'll get a good update on this blog.  Some day!  I promise!

Brief Update!

Wow it's been a LONG time since we've posted anything on the blog!  We're in the process of moving right now!  A week from today we move out of our house and in with our friends Walt and Diane.  Then off to Mexico City for a week, then on to Oregon for Christmas and New Years!  After that we'll be doing a good deal of travelling in the States.  Of course we'll have more info as we get a more concrete schedule!

Highlights of this week:

• We were able to meet with a local polititian and his wife to give them a Bible and share a bit about Christ!!  I've been going to their home 4 days a week to help their daughters with their Englsih homework, but we had bee praying about meeting with them to share about Christ.  More about that if you get our newsletters!
• We sold our car yesterday at a REALLY good price!
• Today is the 1st anniversary of our friends Phil and Sandy's cafe ministry to college students!  The ministry is growing bunches!  We'll be at their celebration tonight!

I unfortunately haven't taken many pictures in the past few weeks, but I'll leave you with this one from a brief trip to Tequisquiapan (try pronouncing THAT!)  a couple months ago:

Goodbyes and Holidays!

Our good friends Justin and Lluvia left Queretaro this past weekend to move on to a new ministry assignment.  I've worked with them the whole time I've been in Queretaro, and JP worked with Justin even a bit longer than that!  So we're sad to see them go, but happy that they will be used in another country soon!

Jean Paul, Jessica, Lluvia, Justin, and our good friends Sandy and Luis.

September 16th was Mexican Independence Day, so we got to celebrating on the 15th and 16th!  My first Mexican Independence actually being a Mexican!

We celebrated at church this year :)

Some of the ladies that participated in the "traditional dress" contest at church:

JP and his mom in front of the Queretaro State Capitol building

Every time is food time on this blog:

Here's a common snack in Queretaro: a big crispy pork rind with cabbage, tomatoes, onions, salsa, and thin strips of PICKLED PORK SKIN on top.  NOT one of my favorites, but it's quite popular!

This IS one of my favorites, in fact there were made at my house by me for lunch on the 16th - Queretaro Guajolotes (wah-ho-LO-tays) or in Mexico City they're called pambazos (pahm-BAH-sohs)  - sandwiches where the bread is dipped in sauce and roasted, filled with beans, cheese, chorizo sausage, onion, lettuce, and cooked squares of potato and carrot.  REALLY YUMMY

And the typical elotes (ey-LO-tays) - corn on the cob covered in mayonaise, grated white cheese, chile powder and lime!  We had a guest from Guadalajara at our house for lunch the other day and we were talking about typical foods in Queretaro and Guadalajara, and he just about gagged when we said we eat mayonaise and cheese on corn...  I guess that's only in this region of Mexico!

We had a great weekend!

STUFF

I may have written about this before, I honestly don't remember.  But I was reminded of "STUFF" just now because Jamie the Very Worst Missionary posted THIS article on her Facebook feed.  And it was a good article.  And it made me think of the STUFF in my life - present and past.

Over two years ago, when JP went the United States for the first time (and only time until this December!), he made a comment that really got me to thinking.  We were walking through some middle-class neighborhoods in South Salem (Oregon) in August, and of course, many people were doing stuff outside and had their garage doors open probably all day.  Apart from being flabbergasted that someone would leave their garage open when they weren't in it *(see note below), JP wanted to know what all the STUFF was that people have in their garages.  Good question!  My first answer was "bikes, a lawn mower, Christmas decorations, tools, and cleaning supplies."  That makes sense, even here in Queretaro those are things that you'd find in someone's back patio.  "Ok... so what's all the REST of the stuff?"  JP asked.  I thought about that for a little bit and said that I imagined that it was stuff that the people hardley ever use but don't want to get rid of.  That did nothing to take the look of confusion off JP's face.  "Why don't they have a garage sale?  They could get a ton of money from all that stuff!" he said.  And I realized that, after having moved to Mexico, that's my line of thought on the subject of "STUFF" too.  If you don't use it, you can either sell it or give it away! 

This is just a random "google images" picture, but I think it could be pretty typical of a "STUFF-filled"garage!

Since JP and I both LOATHE moving, we started really early in finding out what to do with our STUFF while we're in the US.  We've sold a few items of furniture - things that we don't use very often like a twin-sized bed, an office chair, and a cabinet.  I also decided to sell the mircrowave to a lady who opened a restaurant three weeks ago.  It's really not that difficult to be without a microwave!  :)  We're happily getting rid of STUFF, and that's really not that hard either, it feels good!  Try it!

Now I just need to figure out what to do with MY STUFF that's still at my parents' house in Oregon...  :) 

* In Queretaro, we're blessed to have a low rate of violent crimes.  However, theft is rampant.  We've had our car attemped to be broken into twice, just because we had a coat or a plastic grocery bag in the back seat!  If we left our back patio door open all day, we might come home to a completely empty patio - washing machine included!  I don't even leave jeans hanging outside of our patio to dry anymore because I think they might not be there in a couple hours! 

Seriously?!

Read even just the introduction to this Wikipedia description of Operation Fast and Furious. 
REALLY?! 
Correct me if my interpretation of this is wrong:

Give guns to bad guys so they can go commit MORE heinous crimes, then TRY to see if you can track them and the weapons you gave them down.  And make sure they all get sold in Mexico so our ridiculously high crime rate will sky-rocket even more. 

ATF FAIL.

Clean Hair... And SO Much More

I HATE washing my hair.  Like I REALLY.  HATE.  IT.  I unfortunately also hate the feeling and the look of having dirty hair.  I also have hair that is prone to greasiness, and I play with my hair like, ALL the time.  That makes for an unfortunate combination.  However, I LOVE taking a shower (as long as I can do it without getting my hair wet)!  There were actually a couple of days this past summer, days when it was 95 degrees outside and 89 inside, where I showered three times in one day.  It just feels so good.  And two of those times per day were made even better by the fact that my hair didn't even NEED to be washed!  :)

So yesterday at church (yeah, I DO have a point to this!) we were studying Titus 3:1-7.  At Horizonte Church we go through an entire book of the Bible at a time.  Over the course of several weeks or months, of course.  And I've really been enjoying Titus.  So the pastor was talking about verse 5 - Jesus saves us, not because of cool stuff we've done but because of MERCY.  And as all Horizonte attendees know from the Titus series, mercy is "NOT receiving what you deserve."  Christ WANTS to clean us up from sin.  And the pastor asked a big question: What part of my life do I NOT want Christ to clean?  It's like me with not wanting to wash my hair.  In fact, I probably thought of that analogy yesterday during the sermon precisely because I hadn't washed my hair a in a couple days and, honestly, it was particularly greasy-looking.  I want my body to be clean (hence 3 showers per day if it's super hot out), but I don't want to go through the bother of washing an incredibly full head of hair because, even though I love the end result, I hate the process of actually washing it, then brushing it out, waiting for it to dry, or even worse drying it with a hair dryer.  So yesterday, for example, people had reason to wonder if I'd showered recently - not because I had crap on my face, or smelled like B.O., but because it was noticeble that I hadn't washed my hair.  And that contributes to a general "not-showered" look.  The same happens if I let Christ clense me from my sins but keep going back to one particular sin because I don't want to give it up and be forgiven.  Having forgiven sins is *a little* bit bigger of a deal than having clean hair.  And the GREAT thing is that if I give over control of my life to Christ so He takes care of the sins that I don't want to let go of, I'm clean for good!  (Stupid hair gets dirty again in the next day or two!!) 

So, while I may not change my hair-washing habits, I DID get a lot to think about and work on in my SPIRITUAL life!